Low glucose levels will impair the brain's ability to process information and the body's ability to function, so confusion and fatigue, heightened fight-flight responses, tiredness and short-temperedness are all potential side effects - but different people will have different levels of response*.
Not all bad behaviour can be put down to low blood sugars, and an already difficult personality trait could be made worse by a hypo, so if things are deteriorating stop and assess the situation, and after a blood test, if it's not BSL related, ask yourself the psychology 101 question, "would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy" and then apply the "happy wife happy life" maxim...
50 years of being T1 is a drag for you - and probably no picnic for your partner either - so regardless of hypos, getting a bit fed up from time to time is not entirely surprising, but it's not a licence to be unreasonable - the important thing is how you manage and negotiate mood imbalances with your partner is the key to both of you feeling happy and secure (low stress). If you think it is worth it, go to the GP and get a health care plan to see a psychologist and get some feedback on your current coping strategies and techniques, some adjustments might make all the difference.
*A compounding issue for females with Diabetes is menopause ie. low BSL's could exacerbate the discomfort already being experienced by hormone imbalances and adjustments - talking with women's health specialists can be beneficial.
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David B.
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Original Message:
Sent: 22-04-2023 09:48
From: David
Subject: Hypo unawareness
My wife asks: Is increased crankiness a universal behavioural change when going hypo?
After 50 years of being T1, I realised this morning that I get very cranky as my blood glucose drops. My wife says she has been married to two different people. I thought I was just always right. She asks do other diabetics respond in other ways?
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David
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